I still don't have the idea of how can I love a person whose really older than me or younger than me, which is absolutely over or under the boundaries of my prefer age to be with. I'm now at my twenty years of living, and I prefer ages of not beyond 23 and not younger than 19. But this were just words of my idea, I still haven't closed my door for some possibility that I could fall to a person whose on his 30's or even on his 16 or 18 of age. I haven't try yet, but if that kind of fate and love will be given upon me, i'm fine with it.
I just watched the movie "The Rebound" starring Catherine Zeta-Jones and Justin Bartha. A movie about an older-woman-younger-man combo. Where in Sandy ( Catherine Zeta-Jones) got a divorced, now on his 40's and move to city for a new life and then she met Aram (Justin Bartha) a 25 year old man who became the baby sitter of her kids and suddenly became her lover.
Things get crucial as sandy became too paranoid about their age status, she might thought that Aram should have life what is a 25 year old man be doing and not having sex with her, taking care of her kids and loving a 40 old woman that is pathetically ruining his youthfulness. They separate ways, they both have an amazing single life after they broke up as they pursue their dreams and become successful. Years after they met again, and what sweet is? Love is still there. The love Aram have for sandy is a love that is true, so as, sandy. They really love each other whatever their age gap is.
The movie made me realize that, AGE REALLY DOESN'T MATTER. Age is just a number. If love is really there, age doesn't matter anymore. If you're into this kind? Don't mind others who made bad talks against the relationship you have. Well, we can't totally blame them if this really against their will or whatever. But, as long as you're both have the same level of maturity, how you acted right towards the kind relationship you have, the respect, the love and trust you have for each other is there and you both happily living together. That's what matters.
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